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Public Service & The Downward Domino Effect

31 Dec 2024 | ageing, Health, medical, Reflections, Uncategorized

I prove the point by listing my current ailments, such as backache, creaking knees, and fears of a feeble memory.

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Children of the Evolution

11 Nov 2024 | evolution, Health, nature, Travel

it was an opportunity to do Christmas shopping, take in some frightful West End musicals, and commit acts of heavy-duty socialising that would be filed under the predictable heading; ‘what happens in London, stays in London.

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White Coat Syndrome (turn to God)

17 Oct 2024 | Health, medical, Mental Health, Religion, Uncategorized

Before I read this official version I thought this syndrome was purely psychological. You know the scene, where the doctor lowers their half-moon reading specs further down their nose, looks you in the eye and gives the verdict. Heart-in-mouth, butterflies in the stomach and all that.

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Fresh Faced Imbeciles Laughing at Me

17 Mar 2024 | Health, Music, Poetry, Reflections

I guffawed so loudly that he paused, looked towards me and acknowledged my laugh with ‘You see”! I was so proud to have been noticed and included in his banter.

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The Cape of High Sensitivity

22 Apr 2023 | Coaching, Disability, Mental Health, Reflections, Uncategorized

job is helping people find new careers and supporting them prepare for a new work role. It’s about managing change and shifting self-perception e.g. today I was persuading a former highly-paid investment banker that their present situation means they need to start again, perhaps as a bookkeeper or an administrator.

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The World Cup Who Fell To Earth (is Joe Lycett a bully?)

22 Nov 2022 | Education, Equality, Football, LGTBQ+, Reflections, Soccer, Sport, Uncategorized, World Cup

If he was entirely fair in picking on David Beckham. His reasoning is that Beckham has benefited financially and image-wise as a gay icon, he even wore a dress once, and according to Lycett, ought to have condemned both FIFA and Qatar.

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Not My World Cup

15 Nov 2022 | Brazil, Disability, Equality, Football, Italy, LGTBQ+, Mental Health, Soccer, Sport, Uncategorized, Wheelchair, World Cup

global darlings Brazil, conceded seven goals to the eventual victors Germany. Everything else has been wisely forgotten

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Chaos Theory

14 Jul 2022 | Education, Mental Health, Travel, Uncategorized

‘A disparate mass of self-seeking failures from other industries who are more interested in shafting each other than anything else. They are no better than spivs that exploit war’.

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For My Words Only

2 Apr 2022 | Reflections

I am frequently scolded by family and work colleagues for not responding to messages. Although I know I should treat work chats more seriously, some are requests by managers,

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2022 Facta non-Verba (Action not Words)

1 Jan 2022 | Art, Coaching, Education, Reflections, Travel, Uncategorized

He was driven to build the perfect woman because the ones put on Earth by the gods were not good enough for him.

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30 years without winged feet: remembering Freddie Mercury.

24 Nov 2021 | Archive

Freddie taught us was that if you want to prove yourself as a creative person, attention to detail and minutiae are very important.

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Work in the balance

22 Sep 2021 | Uncategorized

if something goes wrong e.g. key workers leave or you run out of money, there is no safety net. It’s the same thing as being a roofer or a tree surgeon. However good you are at the job, you are exposed and if you fall, it hurts.

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The final (part 1)

10 Jul 2021 | Football, Reflections, Sport

I have always supported Italy in this kind of play-off but yet am not really sure why

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Forty Years a Twelfth Spy

18 May 2021 | Coaching, Education, Reflections, Uncategorized

Pre-Birth Forty years ago this month, I began working in what is still my current job. Thirteen years into this job, I strained at the leash and trained to become a teacher. I did not, however, change my occupation. Similar diversions enticed me in 2001, 2005, 2007,...

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Prince Harry and me; closer than you think.

25 Mar 2021 | Coaching, Education, Mental Health, Reflections, Uncategorized

The Prince, however, has, as far as my research has shown, given himself a really good chance of delivering on his promise.

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One Hundred

2 Feb 2021 | Education, Football, Mental Health, Reflections, Running, Sport

My attention span and train-of-thought have definitely reduced during the pandemic, I believe the major reason for this is that I have had fewer one to one conversations with people outside my bubble

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Get a Grip

28 Dec 2020 | Mental Health, Reflections

the shock that hits first. Even as I was in mid-air and about to land, I knew I had stepped on ice and was upset that it was lurking within the mud and not on the path that was fast coming up to greet my shoulder

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WFH, xG and introducing xEMx ©

5 Feb 2025 | Coaching, Disability, Education, Football, Health, Mental Health, Soccer, Uncategorized

despite having doubts about these metrics, I’m unashamedly jumping on the bandwagon and taking this opportunity to introduce my own workplace metric, Expected Emotional Exchange© or xEMx ©

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Turn To The Write

3 Oct 2024 | Disability, Mental Health

I work for a government department in what we can broadly call recruitment and one of my key tasks is to help people find paid employment.  When I first meet a client I try in the first instance, to ascertain what they’d like to do and then what they can do. Last...

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